Life is what we make It.

           

             I don't know how people live their lives. But most of the time in my life I have seen and especially experienced that people continue to live life in a routine manner. Although I am not the master of anyone's life, I have started knowing the truth of my life a little more. This is the topic of this post, what do we want in our life? How do we make our lives? Everything is going on in our own way in the life of all of us. But suddenly our life gets messed up because our life is not #AMAZON ONLINE SHOPPING. Then we try to find every aspect for the better in the troubling situation and blame our fate. Life is what we make of it is not an easy question and perhaps we spend most of our time avoiding knowing the basics of life. We don't always know what we like. There is a famous saying - To the man with only a hammer, everything starts looking like a nail. Meaning, to the person who has a hammer in his hand, everything looks like a nail. If there is stress, confusion, fear, disappointment in our life, then there is full guarantee that whenever we meet others, we will give them what we have. Most people always spend their life competing with others. But true happiness occurs when a person is honest with himself. Life is all about living with acceptance of what we have been given at birth. we are so irrational that even if someone tells us that you are looking bad today, we just accept the same thing as truth and spoil our entire day. We forget that this body is mine, the soul residing in it is mine, every cell of the body is mine, so who else is there to call it bad? If I spoil my whole day just because someone says so, then I am not loyal to my body and my soul. This negativity in life is the root cause of destroying our lives. All the discoveries that have been made in the world have been made by those people whom considered useless. Even though the world may have considered them worthless, each one of them was loyal to himself. 

                Every time the lamp gets extinguished, wind is not the only reason; sometimes the oil in the lamp also get exhausted, due to which the lamp gets extinguished. It depends on us whether we let the lamp get extinguished because of someone else or become the reason for it getting extinguished. It is not that everyone's lamps in the world are extinguished like this. Many lamps remain burning all the time, but there are many people who light lamps in the dark and give light to others with their light. There are some who remain sitting with their eyes closed even in sunlight. Everything is in our hands - we can give to our life only what is within us, we will give to others only that which is within us.  The other will also give us what he has - EACH GIVES WHAT HE HAS. If an unknown person meets with an accident on the road, any sensitive person cannot help but have tears in his eyes. We have tears in our eyes for that unknown person because we all know that after death he no longer exists. Believe me, we too suddenly shed tears during a sad scene in a move, just like when someone of ours dies, we do not have to be told to cry. That is natural, this is the nature of all of us. Our life is divided into whatever good or bad happens to us. Even after we are gone, the same good things make others cry. Although everyone in the world cries only after someone's death, but the one who wipes the tears of others, who looks into the sorrow of others, who has associated more people with himself than money, will not remain without the flood of tears even during his life. 

            After our death, what difference does it make whether we reach the grave on four shoulders or not, what difference does it make how many tears someone sheds after our departure, what difference does it make what someone says to us after our departure? All things have value only when we are alive, our altruism is the sign of our being alive. We are all travelling life through time. Many have been left behind, some will probably be left ahead, somewhere in this crowd we too will be left behind. How many have we remembered, who will remember us? This journey of time in the lives of all of us has been going on at an uninterrupted pace since the time it started in this universe and will continue to do so in the future also. Our present life and the solution for its improvement. No thinking person can ignore the events taking place in his time. Every person who ignores this, without being authentic towards himself, leaves this world empty-handed, where he will never get this opportunity again. 

                This is my own thinking, that every person has his own limits of thoughts, and I have an independent view of my own life. Being a strong believer in tradition, I do not close my eyes to innovation. The truth of life, whatever I have known, is being expressed through words. If there is lack of height of thinking, breadth of subject matter and depth of sentiment in the articles, then that is the limit of my experience, talent and knowledge. The honest expression of acquired knowledge, thoughts and vision is my wealth. This is the wording of the questions that my won experience and vision raised in my consciousness.